1. He hardly ever calls you.

If a man is not calling you just to find out how you are, to hear your voice, to ask you out, to find any excuse to talk to you, he is not ready to commit to you. It doesn’t matter if you have been going out and having sex with him either. If he is not putting forth any effort to call you just to say hi and find out how you are, he is not interested in taking anything to the next level.

2. He never asks you out or takes you out

What is he doing exactly? You may go out or agree to meet up but does he actually initiate it or do you? Are you the one asking him out? If so, then do you see how he is still NOT putting forth any effort?

He may go out…